I have in Portugal a 84cm satellite dish and would like to be able to watch the

When I lived in Cascais it was possible to receive all these services, but it took a 1.2m dish, because these services are on the Astra 2D satellite that points at the UK.
You can either use a second-hand (or indeed new) Sky box to get these services using the familiar channel numbers and interactive services.
If you don't want to use a Sky box, but a generic one, you can find the frequencies to tune to at:
http://www.lyngsat.com/28east.html
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